True self confidence is self-realization and a complete faith in thy self. A faith in the power that knows the way and never makes mistakes. All else is ego, believing something about itself, identifying itself as this and that and having various opinions, and believing without opinions which is always the ego as truth needs none. What is there to feel self-confidence about other than confident that the direction we are going in at each moment is the right one and there cannot be a mistake made.
Everything is the path to the self, some parts are dramatic but without the drama and suffering we would not want to let go of the worldly matters and our attachments to it and there would be continuous cycle of good and bad shallow living, and we would not be aware of the eternal.
Self-confidence is the most attractive quality a person can have. How can anyone see how great you are if you can’t see it yourself.